For a people easily split into Northerners and Southerners, Nigerians can still be held together by their sense of morality and religiosity. The genuineness of this though is a subject for another day, but in my casual observation there is a taboo that seems to be attached to the hospitality industry with men who check into hotel rooms, considered straying husbands, and women seen with hotel room keys as unfaithful wives. What is worse is if you are a young girl. I do not have to say what already pops up in your head. And for young Nigerian boys, the tag of being a cyber-criminal doesn’t come off easily. Why do these tags get attached to these demography of people? Why is it hard to imagine that a man might have an argument with his wife and it gets to the point where he needs time to be alone to cool off and so he checks into a hotel? Or he may be on business from another state, and since is flight is not until the next morning it only makes sense to check into a hotel for the night. Or that a young female who also happens to be a software developer needs an accommodation in Ikeja for the weekend where she can work uninterrupted and where there is 24 hours electricity and internet service that is very good. There are many valid reasons why people could book a hotel, and it rarely has to be sinister or filled with ulterior motives.
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Hotel owners and managers have in the past attributed the low patronage of their business to this mentality among Nigerians.
“White people don’t think like that” says an hotel manager who chose to remain unnamed “They come in here for business or sightseeing, they check into an hotel, its normal for them as it is for them over there, nobody is raising eyebrows or calling your Pastor to report you. But here in Nigeria, we have the mentality that if a man is checking into a hotel he is lodging with his girlfriend, he is unfaithful to his wife. If a woman does it then she is a shame to her husband”
It would also be necessary for people to be aware that like going into a restaurant to eat, or like taking the kids to an amusement park or taking a significant other to a fancy date, checking in to a hotel room for the weekend is also a good way to treat yourself. And we should try it sometime. Clean sheets. Hot running water, satellite television, room service, internet access all these at affordable rates. Take a central place in Lagos like Ikeja for example where the competition is high, there are lots of cheap hotels in Ikeja that provide these to their guests.
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“Nigerians work so hard for their money, I don’t see why
anyone would want to judge someone who goes for a weekend getaway in a moderate
hotel or a resort, just to relax yourself. You don’t even have to go with
anyone. I do it sometimes and switch off my phones, because I don’t want
disturbance. And with time, I find that it is good for my health.” Says Sunday
Oriaku who is a businessman who imports building materials from China.
Moreover hotels provide more than just accommodation. They
often cater to business travelers and businessmen by having conference rooms
and business meeting rooms in their buildings. So where their conference room
is booked for a week long seminar that brings people from all over the country
it only seems the wise thing to book rooms in the same hotel or a nearby hotel
for the sake of convenience.
It may take a while. But we may eventually get
there. The secret may be for people not to straddle others with their own
notion or idea of morality. While it may be true that some married persons do